Workarounds and temporal solutions
In autumn we will be in situation where me and both our kids are working / studying in Helsinki. That's fifty-something kilometers from where we live.
I have been travelling that distance for years. And for me, it hasn't been a problem. I can have remote days quite often and even when I do commute there I can work from the train as well.
But for the kids, it's a bit different. It would take my daughter over one and a half hour to get to her school. A bit over an hour for my son as well. That's quite a lot.